I have the hardest time sometimes getting my slave in the mood for play. I know I could just order her to play but I want her to want to play. To be salivating with anticipation for any kind of play.
When we talk about our wants and needs she is of the mind that I should just start doing all of the dirty things I want, but when I want to do them she protests. It isn't reactance either, she just won't be in the mood. I am pretty sure she isn't testing me either, it's just that for some reason she loses her slavehood.
I have heard it said I should act more the Master, hold her accountable, but I really believe in positive reinforcement: that is, encourage the good behavior and ignore the bad.
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